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Passed down memories April 6, 2009

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Hi there! I’m Danielle, granddaughter of Violet and Harold, daughter of Diane. I never had the pleasure of meeting my mom’s (Diane’s) parents (that I remember–Mom made sure Violet met me but I was still a newborn). They both live on in my mother’s memory. That got me thinking about what stays with you about a person. For instance, a few minutes ago I was sitting here at my kitchen bar, eating slightly stale chocolate cake in a bowl with milk. Who “always” ate cake in a bowl with milk? Well, mom’s “Daddy,” Dick, that’s who! And Violet made the “crazy cake” that he ate that way and that mom used to make when I was a kid. Of course, I had to tell my kids about that when they looked at me with my milky bowl o’cake.

One thing I remember Mom (Diane) did that made Violet live on and more real to me is that she used to sit and play the piano and sing songs from the 30s and 40s. Now whenever I hear one of those songs, I’ll think of Violet and my mom.

If any of you have stories or just quirky things to share about Violet and Dick, I would love to read them.

By the way, I unearthed the Magnuson family reunion papers that my mom (Diane) sent me after the reunion and found something a little eerie. There is a picture of Emma and Seth Magnuson with their baby daughter, Ruth. Maybe it’s just the bald head at that age, I don’t know, but I swear this could be a picture of my daughter Naomi as a baby.  Do you recall the picture in the packet? Does anyone have a picture of Ruth as a child or an adult? Below is a picture of me with Naomi when she was about 7 months old. She is now 5 and does have hair :-) .

Does Naomi look like Ruth Magnuson?

Does Naomi look like Ruth Magnuson?

Resemblance, Ruth and Naomi

Resemblance, Ruth and Naomi

Round Robin – Jackie November 29, 2008

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Dear Family, Thursday (Turkey Day) Nov. 27, 2008

The Round Robin just came to me so I’ll do my part; send it email as well as snail mail.

We enjoyed our Thanksgiving dinner with friends in Lincoln, Terry & Donna Trueblood. We’ve been friends since 1967 when they moved to Central City – then after 13 years here they moved to Lexington , and now have retired in Lincoln . It was not a bad travel day, fewer trucks on the interstate, but lots of cars. Donna sent home turkey, potatoes and veggie casserole so we’re set for dinner tomorrow!

Tomorrow Nebr. Plays Colorado in Lincoln and we’ll be watching on T-V. Our football program is looking up so maybe some day we’ll again have the winning tradition we had come to expect.

Monday I entertain 16 for lunch (my book group) so I’ll be preparing for that this weekend. Plan to make Arizona Casserole (Mexican), broccoli salad and cranberry cake with butter cream sauce for dessert? The book we’re discussing is one by Barbara Kingsolver “Animal, Vegetable, & Miracle”. All about how her family for a year lived off what they could raise on their farm in Vermont plus some organic items they could buy. Not a favorite book but does make you stop and think a little about the food we eat. I see the organic food in grocery stores and it is always more expensive but you can see why it would be more expensive to grow. My daughter in law, Paulette, swears by the organic eggs.

December is always a busy month with everything I belong to having lunch, or dinner, or open houses. C.C. has a “Parade of Lights” to kick off the holiday season and that is tomorrow.

We have a new assisted living facility here now. Don and I toured it recently and were impressed at how beautiful it is. The residents all have suites and they seem small but would probably be okay for one person, though a couple could have one. The public places are numerous, for instance a library, large activity room, small dining room for families to come in and have a more private dinner with a resident, chapel, exercise room etc. A nice addition to the town but would compete with Merrick Manor, the three story facility that Don’s Dad was instrumental in having built 40 years ago.

I have enjoyed everyone’s Round Robin letters – and hope this continues. Even if someone thinks they have no news, it is always surprising what one learns, and of course it can always just be sent on until the next round if someone is too busy to write. Sorry, Natalie, that you are plagued with health issues. Thanks Craig for your newsy letter. I’m sorry you’ve had some upheaval in your personal life – know how you love those grandchildren. And that you enjoy Shanna’s husband, Shawn so much.

A last comment on the new President elect. Whatever your politics, we need to support the voter’s choice and hope and pray the country will be in better shape in the months and years to come.

I’m thankful today for our family, immediate and extended.

Love you all. Jackie

Round Robin – Natalie November 23, 2008

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November 22, 2008

Dear Family,
I just received the written Round Robin today and discovered I was next
on the list.  I am a little confused as to whom is to get the email
version though.  I may have included people that shouldn’t get it, or
left someone off that it should have gone to.  I think this needs to be
clarified.

Rick and I have spent a very boring Fall, waiting and hoping that my new
artificial knee would straighten out and allow us to do some traveling.
After surgery on August 8th and then manual manipulation under anesthesia
on Oct 9th and lots of physical therapy in between and following, we are
resigning ourselves to the fact that we need to get on with our lives and
hope things get better down the road.  The problem has been extreme
swelling in the knee joint which will not allow the knee to bend as it
should.  No one seems to know what is causing the swelling to continue so
long.  Regardless, it is hampering the physical therapy and preventing
normal progress.  At times it is so bad, I feel I am going backward.
Then today I visited the heart doctor and found out I am building plaque
in my arteries again.  The doctor believes it is genetic and has doubled
my medication.  I do NOT want another open heart surgery!!

We did make a short trip with our church group the end of October.  This
is an annual event that we take the last weekend before Halloween.  We
camp out, socialize, play games and carve pumpkins.  This year it was
over my birthday and Jason, Terri and Madison surprised me by showing up
and taking us to lunch in the nearest town of Homedale.  Afterwards they
came back to the RV park and carved pumpkins with us and then presented
me with a giant birthday cake to feed the masses.  It was fun and
surprising!

I think everyone knows that our granddaughter, Madison is attending Boise
State University
.  It is fun to have her close…we see her a lot more
often.  In fact, Madison, Jason and Terri joined us for lunch today and
will join us for Thanksgiving next week.  It really means a lot to me
because for years after Jason’s divorce,  he became scarce and Madison
moved away with her mom.  It took a lot of wrangling to get everyone
together.

We have decided that we will try to head south to warmer weather after
Christmas.  Several of our friends have been calling and asking where we
are and Rick is chopping at the bit.  I said I wouldn’t travel again
until I was feeling 100%, but I don’t think that is going to happen.
With fuel prices lower than last year, this may be our last chance, so we
will give it a go.  At least I got him to stay until after Christmas!

I really don’t have anything more to report…no good books or such.  We
have really stayed close to home.  My therapy sessions take up a lot of
my time.

Love to all, Natalie (and Rick)

Round Robin – Craig November 7, 2008

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11-6-2008

Hi everybody, it’s Craig.

You know, when it first came up I had a brief moment of reluctance about getting into this Round Robin. While I like knowing what and how everyone in the family is doing, I lead what I think of as an uninteresting life and not one that might be thought of as letter worthy. That and not all of my news is good, or easy to relate. Still, if you want to be in the loop you have to be a part of the loop, so here goes.

As most of you know from the family blog post my daughter Shanna got married in September 2007 out in San Jose , CA . It was quite an affair at a really nice hotel and heavily attended by family and friends of both the bride and the groom. Gayla and I were joined by Susan, Claudia and Stephanie and a good time was had by all. It was great to see so many of Shanna’s aunts and uncles again and to meet so many of Shawn’s family members. Shawn is a pretty successful guy, is well thought of at his company, and is former U.S. Navy (a trait that is pretty prevalent in his family, father, grandfather, uncles, etc. & his sister graduated from the Naval Academy in 2007). I know Dad would have liked that Navy part. Anyway, the time wasn’t right to get to know Shawn well but I look forward to that opportunity in the near future as you will read here later.

At the end of October 2007 I was financially lured back to The Highland Group after having been gone for about a year. Now, I understand the basis of the opinions that say it isn’t right that one should be lured from company to company by the next, more attractive, competing offer…but that’s what happened. It is actually pretty common in a marketing position and especially in front-end marketing in the consulting business. And frankly, I wanted to make more money. The Highland Group had treated me well for 10 years before I left and though being away for a year was some relief from the pressure cooker, I couldn’t resist the offer to return and don’t much miss working from home.

I have, for years, taken time off the week of Thanksgiving in order to return to NE Nebraska and join brother Clark in raiding Susan and Dennis’ farm in our annual hunt for pheasant. For the most part I don’t care whether we get any birds, but very much enjoy getting away from the concrete and into the dirt of that part of Nebraska . Since Clark and Ronda moved from Norfolk to Plainview I have begun staying at their home and enjoying their hospitality. It is a trip that, as I’ve said many times, is good for my soul. Clark is always good company and Susan’s youngest, Alex, has become a good hunting buddy. I do so enjoy the two complimenting senses of humor from those guys. Throw in Dennis when he can get away from his many responsibilities and one can’t help having a good time. Last year, for the third time, my stepson Nick came along and since he had observed for two years we finally let him carry a gun. Getting his first bird was a thrill for Nick but a nerve-wracking experience for the rest of us. Picture if you will, four guys taking aim at the same flushing bird, three of them waiting for the short guy to pull the trigger before the bird got out of range! Well, Nick finally fired and Clark and Alex made sure the bird didn’t get away. I was on the other side of the road, beaming. It was a good looking pheasant and one well-earned as Nick had walked along, learning hunter’s safety and the ethics of the sport for two long years. It was his time and we’ll both remember it for many years to come.

The end of 2007 brought the holidays and they always seem so busy here in Dallas . We drive back from Nebraska on Wednesday and then spend Thanksgiving Thursday with Gayla’s family all day and enjoy it each time. Then comes Friday and the weekend. There are hunting clothes to wash and stow away until next year. Guns and ammo and gear to clean and secure. And of course, the car is always a terrible mess too. But the Christmas decorations need to be put up and the shrubbery in the front yard has to be trimmed before the lights can be strung upon them and all this must be done with one eye on the clock because the Cornhuskers are on TV pretty soon to do battle with Colorado. Going back to work on that following Monday is almost a relief! After that week each year I feel as though Christmas shopping is a piece of cake. Christmas at our house was good. Jaimi, Daniel, little Daniel and Riley were all there as planned. Christmas is always better with toddlers included, but then, I think that’s true of most any event or occasion.

January brought us the news that Jaimi was pregnant again. Good news of course, though we always worry about how they will make ends meet in their household. With Riley still in diapers and Daniel’s potty training only just completed we naturally thought about how much they are truly able to take on. Now looking back it was indeed true that God doesn’t give us more than we can handle.

In April I was given the opportunity (read: challenge) to jump over to the company’s fledgling banking division and made that move in the spirit of providing a boost in sales to team and to indoctrinate a new field sales guy. It’s been fun and interesting with respect to the learning experience, though current conditions aren’t the most conducive to generating new business. I’ve decided that bankers of late are much like rose bushes in dormancy…inert and thorny. We were beginning to think the remainder of the year would be uncomfortably quiet but a couple of recent deals have changed that picture for the better.

Now to that bad news I mentioned earlier. The month of May this year brought an end to our marriage. I won’t go into all the details here but to say that even though the problems seemed then to be so great that coping with them was unimaginable, we were and have remained civilized about the relationship and amicable in dealing with each other. Gayla moved in with some family friends near to her parent’s home in Denton . Nick decided he was not able to live with his mother either and moved to his dad’s home Northwest of Fort Worth after the school year had ended. He is doing well there having gotten a part-time job cleaning boats at a local marina, keeping his grades up, getting a provisional (age restricted) driver’s license and is even starting for the high school’s J.V. football team. Each time we talk he requires reassurance that the hunting trip to Nebraska is still “a go” for this year, and he gets it, as long as he keeps his grades above an 85. Not a huge challenge for Nick, but just enough. He doesn’t realize that my siblings in Nebraska would be very upset with me if Nick were to miss a trip!

Things got a bit worse for Gayla after the divorce but have now started to turn around. She is back to work now, going to her meetings regularly and trying her best to be the person she once was. We are all relieved by this, but especially so her parents who were upset to the point of seeming wounded by Gayla’s situation. I met with her this past Sunday at her storage facility (still not completely moved out of the house, I was transporting furniture and stuff) for about 45 minutes and she looked and acted better than I had seen in over a year. It feels good to be able to tell you that.

Now comes August of this year. I got a call one evening in early August from Jaimi. She was pretty upset as they were in a bind financially, late with rent and at wits end as to what to do. This was when Gayla was unemployed and unable to help. She was really looking for someplace to “nest” her family with a baby girl due in early September. I have a really big and pretty empty house. So the kids moved in with me. It didn’t last nearly as long as I’d have liked. It is hard to put into words the great uplift I got for that short time having two grandkids come running downstairs to greet me each evening after work. Daniel happy to see his granddad, Riley wanting to be held by her “dad-dad.” It was great.

Then later on little Avree was born. A girl with a sense of symmetry, she was born on 8-28-2008 at 8:18am, was 18” tall and weighed in at 6lbs 3oz. (multiply it). Unlike her brother and sister she has Jaimi’s dark wavy hair and at this point it seems likely she will take after Riley and Gayla and be forever a “shorty.” A quiet baby, she is probably just what the doctor ordered for that household.

The kids found a place up in Little Elm, TX not far from Daniel’s parents and moved there in September. I miss ‘em.

So here we are, back in November again. No hunting trip this Thanksgiving. Alex is away at the University of Nebraska and wouldn’t be in Coleridge at the usual time. What’s more, Texas schools changed their schedules (much to Nick’s disgust) and he is in school until noon on 11-26. Clark and I have rescheduled, perhaps permanently, to the gap week between Christmas and New Year’s Day. The thought of hunting without “the guys” just didn’t have the same appeal. More accurately, there is too much ground to cover efficiently with just two guys with old knees and we can’t always count on the availability of Dennis’ youthful presence.

Instead, this Thanksgiving brings a visit from Shanna and her new husband Shawn to Texas . This is actually the payoff of a bet that Shanna made with Shawn, a Cowboys fan, and lost from last year when she was certain that the Seattle Seahawks would have a better year. Works out well too as Shanna has sworn off the Texas summertime heat and late November in Dallas will seem like a San Jose summer to her. Seattle plays Dallas in Irving on Thanksgiving Day. I have no false illusions about being the attraction that brings them here and am simply happy they’re coming. Shawn’s grandfather Sam, and brother Richard are likely to be here too. At the time of their wedding I was recovering from surgery and dealing with the rush of emotions that accompanied my only child getting married. Shawn didn’t get much of my attention though he had sought it out. I should do better by him and will later this month. I’m really looking forward to the visit though I’m still at a loss as to what one feeds a couple of vegetarians for Thanksgiving!

And since they are staying until the Sunday after Thanksgiving I think those Christmas lights might just have to wait this year. Not everything needs to be done according to schedule after all. Sometimes being with loved ones doing nothing brings greater rewards than getting that “important job” done on time.

Now for a few pictures…

This is Avree at about 7 weeks. Just starting get some pudgy in her cheeks.

This is Riley at about 2 ½ years. I do so love that little smile. She is the apple of her Granddad’s eye.

Here’s Daniel helping his Granddad out on the back patio. You can barely see the cuffs of his “work gloves.” He’s already a “plugger” and only 4 ½ years old.

That’s Clark, Nick, me and Angel outside Dennis’ office. Look close enough and you’ll see the birds. I’ll save some of the “Angel stories” for Clark to tell.

Round Robin – Diane October 12, 2008

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Hello, Family… September 15, 2008

Some of you know what’s going on in my life from emails, or from the Magnuson blog, or from snail mail, or from actually visiting with me, so I don’t really know where to start. So many ways to communicate!

I started the year by announcing to Mike and Eric that I didn’t want to work in the golf course clubhouse this summer, but would be happy to continue to do the books at home. They’ve adapted well, though they spend an inordinate amount of time working the clubhouse. Fortunately, they can access the internet from there and have installed an HDTV, so boredom is minimal. Business at the golf course has been affected by the economy, just as everywhere else, as people try to minimize their spending. In the meantime, I am delighted with my freedom to do what I want when I want, and don’t feel the pressure of trying to get everything done in the house and in the yard and garden in addition to the golf course work. Playing in three golf leagues gave me enough of the golf course this summer. Yea for freedom!

Throughout the year I have been putting together a reunion of some of the women I went to school with, and we are meeting in Bryson City, NC, (southeast side of the Smoky Mountains) the end of September. We hope to have some peace & quiet, rest & relaxation, and walk, talk, eat and laugh a lot. We’re staying in a relatively primitive lodge in the mountains, avoiding the casinos and tourist-type entertainments. Unfortunately, our numbers have dwindled from an original 16 who wanted to come down to 6. Seems there are old parents to take care of, grandchildren to babysit, children getting divorces or being married, grandchildren graduating or getting married, and illness of all kinds in our age group. Those of us who were able to put those responsibilities aside for a week are going to be there.

Most of you know I love to travel. In June I visited Vicki at her home in Aptos, CA. We celebrated our birthdays and played a lot of golf. Vicki had the week nicely planned and it was a good visit. In July, I drove up to South Bend, IN, to help one of Mike’s sisters celebrate her 60th birthday. It ended up being a huge Bird family reunion with four generations represented (and a good time was had by all)!

Here at home, Mike and I keep up with our friends, often with impromptu breakfasts at the local “Cabin” where they serve plate-sized “cabin cakes” and huge servings of biscuits and gravy. Other times we just visit and talk, and sometimes take walks through town. I try to go to as many of Eric’s boys’ sports events as I can: baseball in the summer and football right now. Occasionally I take them out for a meal or “babysit” them at their house or ours. Lucas is 13 and Ian is 8. They’re fabulous!! Naturally!

Danielle sends us pictures of her two girls on a regular basis (Naomi is 4 and Leah’s 3). They are growing up so fast. Both are in pre-school this year (Naomi tells me all about it on the phone), so Danielle finally has a little time to herself. Heaven.  She and Phil are having their kitchen completely re-done and hope to be done by Christmas.  What a chore!

Marty works hard for a company that sets up online ordering for restaurants, loves his cars and works on his “TT” endlessly, goes on trips with his Audi club, and keeps us up to date fairly regularly. Now and then he motors down for the weekend, and we try really hard not to have computer problems for him to solve. He’s our guru.

Miki and Kevin met us for brunch recently in Bloomington. They are happy together and good for one another, I think. Both work stressful jobs, Miki as managing editor of Indiana University Press and Kevin as a teacher in the IU Law School, so they plan trips away on a regular basis, where they manage to relax and recuperate.

What can I say about Eric? When he’s not doing a perfect job on the golf course he is with his boys, coaching their ball teams or being a volunteer assistant for something in which they are involved. He gets rave reviews on how he takes care of the greens and fairways, and makes us proud.

I’ll think of more stuff to say as soon as I sign this, but one must stop somewhere!! Maybe next time I’ll have pictures to send around.

Love to all of you, Diane

P.S. Let’s put our email addresses on the Round Robin 2008 list. That will make it easier to send this out to everyone over the internet, and if anyone changes their email address in the meantime, they can change it on the list as it comes around.

P.P.S. Hope to see you all in Omaha, summer of 2010… Magnuson reunion!

P.P.P.S. Anyone need hints for getting onto the Magnuson blog? Email me at dbird62741@yahoo.com

Round Robin – Nancy October 12, 2008

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September 4, 2008
Hi everyone,
I think this is a great idea. Once I get the hang of it I’ll think it’s an even better idea! We are in Nebraska as I write this, to visit our mom’s and take a little break from the Texas heat. I am quite weary of it as we’ve had 29 days of 100 and above degree temps. The summer started early and doesn’t show any signs of getting better anytime soon.  However, hurricane Gustaf just hit a few days ago and I am very delighted we don’t still live in New Orleans, and very sad for all the again displaced population.
We keep very busy with the grandkids and love every moment of it. We’ll get a good dose of them in Oct. when Kris and Dave travel to the Virgin Isle to celebrate their anniversary and will need a vacation ourselves afterwards.
John is working for EDS which was just sold to Hewlett Packard so we are waiting to hear if he’ll be retained. We think so, but you never know anymore. He travels about 80% of the time, which is’nt anything new to us, but air travel is more complicated all the time, and out of Dallas, the weather is always a factor, almost always delayed coming and going! I really feel for the road warriors out there.
I haven’t seen mom yet, but she sounds good and is still on the go if only to go to the mall to people watch! She is dreading winter, so I am trying to talk her into a visit, and she is thinking about it. We found her a nice cat after her old one died last summer and it keeps her company and has a great personality for a cat.
We’ve been watching the conventions with great excitement. What a historical election this will be. No matter what party one may “belong to” , having a black man and a woman on the ticket at the same time is quite remarkable. Talk about shaking things up! I hope Sarah Palin is really as good as she looks right now.  I am very tired of the same old promises and nothing ever really getting done, and I know I’m not alone.
Pam, your horse is just beautiful. Love it.

Well, I wish you all the happiest of Autumn’s. Til next time, Nancy

Round Robin – Barbara October 12, 2008

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August 19,2008
Greetings Family:
This will be fun to try the RR online  — thank Pam P. as she is the one to get this started again!  You know, I’m a little dense and and it takes a little while to get it all clear in my mind.  The way I understand it is that I write this E-Mail and send it to everyone and then also send a copy plus Pam’s letter by U.S. Mail to the next person on the list.  That person will send their letter by E-Mail to everyone on the list plus they will make a copy and include it with Pam’s and my letters and send it to the next person on the list etc., etc.  I would suggest, however, that if you don’t have time to write a letter to just put a note in the envelope and send it on.  That way, we should all get more timely news.
This has been a strange year weatherwise  –  alot of rain, about 3 days of 100 degree weather and already summer is winding down with mornings that seem real fallish.  We have a different water problem than Teresa though.  She has had water coming in from the top, I think, and ours came up from the bottom!  After 7 years of drouth, we have had water in the basement again.  In the year 2000, we put in the Beaver system and this is the first year to put it to the test.  It did just what it was supposed to the first couple months and then we had this 6″ rain and first thing you know the water started coming up through the floor cracks.  In the beginning, we had 2 pumps running and we ended up with 4.  But that’s what you get when you live in the Platte River Valley – no one should have basements!
I think you all probably know by now that Loren has been in Tiffany Square nursing home in G.I. since the last of April.  He suffers from Dementia and I never know how I will find him when I go to visit as he has his good days and bad days.  However, the Dr. has adjusted his medication — taken away some of the pills and added another and so far things seem to be going better.  The home has to call me everytime certain things happen, so he’s fallen out of bed 3 times and even out of his wheel chair.  It used to bother me terribly to get all this bad news until I realized the girls have to let me know everything that happens.  Probably, it is to cover them in case I might want to sue?  I don’t know for sure.
They have a beauty shop where he could get his hair cut, but he would rather have me do it as I always have.  The beauty shop is closed Saturdays and Sundays, so we could use it then.  Rich & Pam went with me and then Lora and her family came too, so it was a nice big place to have us altogether.   It worked out fine except that whenever anybody spoke, he turned his head, and he’s lucky I didn’t take a big nick out of his hair each time!  Pam was afraid it was too much for him, but I think he enjoyed seeing everyone altogether.  Of course, he loved the 3 little girls to hug and kiss him goodbye!
I hadn’t been to the Merrick County Fair for years, but this year, Pam had to spend some time in the Merrick Foundation booth as she is a member, so it was a good opportunity for me to go too.  Rich, Lora and the girls went too.  It used to be when the County had 12 or more Extension Clubs that we were urged to support the Fair and enter in the competition but there are no more clubs so there isn’t the competitive spirit.  As a result the “open class” building was a quarter of what it used to be and the 4 H part of it is way down too.  There was a Junior Rodeo the night we went so we sat on the bleachers and watched the kids ride the sheep.  Lora’s eldest, Ellie, wanted to ride the sheep too in the competition so Lora took her down but found out they had to sign up ahead of time.  But I bet Ellie won’t let her Mom forget it next year!
I read Steph and Teresa’s contributions to the Blog and they were good ones — and I want to say, Teresa, that I am so happy you are feeling so much better.  Now, I hope you can get a little more padding on your bones so you’ll look like the old Teresa.  Steph mentioned that Kevin and Riley were checking out colleges — I suppose for the next year.  Do you think he wants to go to the same one in California where  his cousin,Jay, will be going this fall?
Merrick County is celebrating their Sesquicentennial (150 years) this summer.  Rich, Pam and I went to the one at Worms earlier in the summer – -  Clarks had theirs a month ago — Archers was last week-end –  Central Citys will be in September and Chapmans in October.  They are all different but lots of fun with Cemetery Tours, Outhouse Races, old time Outdoor Movies, old car shows, Quilt shows, Gun show, — you name it., and I’m sure they had it.  Our church women put out a county-wide Cook Book and we’ve sold around 400 so far.
You all should stop by and see Pam’s flower garden before frost.  It has done so well and is just gorgeous!  She and Rich are in the process now of putting up an Arbor.  When I was over there the other morning, Pam was manning the post hole digger and Rich was mixing cement to put around the posts to anchor the thing down so it won’t sail out over Chapman with the first big breeze that comes along!
We had an unexpected visit a week ago, when our cousin (and yours), Tim Caruthers and his son, Brandon, stopped by on their way to South Bend, Indiana.  Brandon will be studying for his Masters in Business at Notre Dame.  He was to move into married student housing the next day and start classes on Monday.  So they were in a hurry and didn’t stay overnite as they wanted to get to Omaha that night.  We had a good visit over supper though, and even had time to make a fast trip out to the old Magnuson farm.   Brandon is 28, married to a Japanese girl he met in Idaho. and they have  2 children.  They had lived the last 4 years in Japan and she wasn’t able to travel with him home because their new baby was just 2 weeks old.  Her Mother from Japan, will accompany her home to help with the children.  Tim was to fly back to his home in Seattle area, Auburn, I think.
Matt & Emily were married in May — I wrote about it for the Blog but for some reason, it didn’t log on — then I wrote another and that didn’t work either.  Then I figured out you had to have a password, which they sent me by E-Mail and 3 days later, a corrected one and neither one work.  Someday we’ll get it figured out and we’ll get it on with some wedding pictures too, I hope.
Pam, Jackie and I are getting together in another week or so to talk about planning the next Magnuson Family Reunion to be held in Omaha, the summer of 2010.  We would appreciate comments  and input from you all so don’t be bashful.  Sorry this letter got so long, and I promise the next time, I won’t have so much to say.  By the way, Pam P., your carousel horse is just beautiful!  Love to you all,
Barbara

The Round Robin returns via Pam October 12, 2008

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August 6, 2008

Updated August 10, 2008

Dear Family,


I’m in Danville this week, 8/3-8, staying with King while Patty is on a business trip in DC area. This gives me a break, and I can do things I don’t do at home — like writing letters! And it eases Patty’s mind while she is away. I think King does not mind me being here, though he never feels it is necessary! He has had a few episodes this year of stroke/seizure like attacks that leave him exhausted. They have occurred at night, so that is another reason to be here, just in case. Otherwise, King looks a little more tired than a year ago but seems to be holding his own in the other departments, and still working too.

P.S. While I was in Danville , I was able to visit two of his doctors with him and I feel much reassured. The neurologist and oncologist are both fine and capable doctors and told me he is the poster child for surviving this disease. The seizure episodes are not caused by a tumor but rather an after-effect of the radiation he had early on. The neurologist prescribed some medicine for him to try so hopefully that will stop them.
Frank and I have had a lovely summer so far in terms of guests and trips. Jason and Erin spent a week in late May/early June to celebrate her first year at UBC and her birthday. Erin ’s folks joined us for a few days of that time too. Then in June we went to Portland for a League of Women Voters national convention that I attended. We both enjoyed the city a lot, great transit to do sight seeing around town, and we had wonderful weather while we visited. In July, Frank’s young Pecarich cousin, Pluma (10) visited us from New Mexico , so we got to do Knott’s Berry Farm, the beach, movie, etc etc with her. A nice change of pace for us! Next time we will have to recruit someone to go along on the rides with her – Frank and I turned out to be big chickens! Of course it doesn’t help that they publish a 6 foot long warning list of conditions!!

In mid August we will visit Jason and Erin in Vancouver — they still love it there, and we wanted to visit before Erin ’s classes start in late August. Then, in late August we expect a short visit by a friend from Virginia and her daughter who will stay with us, explore Hearst castle one day and other local attractions, giving us a chance to catch up on news of our old neighborhood.
We like having guests as it breaks our routine and we have the opportunity to explore new things and do things we might not otherwise. During Jason and Erin ’s visit we saw ‘Wicked’ in LA — it is a really fun play and very impressive special effects. During Pluma’s visit we took a boat trip to the Anacapa Islands , off the coast of Ventura . They are one of the few sets of “natural” islands left in the US  (no development to speak of — still some remnants of early sheep ranching and non native species that were introduced at various times over history but now a national park). Some call it the North American Galapagos so you get the picture. We saw dolphins, sea lions, lots of birds but no whales which are sometime sighted on the trip at this time of year — and a nice boat ride to boot.
I also experienced a rare treat this summer — brunch with Vicki and Diane. Believe it or not, we were able to connect in Salinas on a Sunday during Diane’s visit with Vicki in June when I was returning home from a visit with King and Patty. It was so fun and special to see them both (first time since our reunion) and to see them together. We all decided we look the same and not one year older!

Frank instigated a project this spring that culminated in late May – having our Illions carousel horse restored and repainted. We first purchased and restored this horse when we were living in Virginia . It moved to California with us of course and in the years in Bakersfield , it was an elegant addition to our living room there. Unfortunately, the heat and perhaps indirect sunlight yellowed the finish so we had kept it downstairs here in Ventura . But we did miss it so Frank recruited one of the notable carousel figure painters and restorers in the West for the redo. The result is illustrated below. It was finished just in time for Jason and Erin ’s visit so this was taken in late May during their visit. The paint style is called “ Coney Island ” and if you can believe it, this is the way they came out of the factory in the early 1900’s, so it is historically accurate as well as beautiful. Amazing! It almost glows in the dark.

This summer has brought many happy memories of our reunion last year and I hope the year has been kind to you and yours. There have been new memories created in many of your families, weddings for sure. We will have a lot to share when we get together again in a few more years. Keep in touch! Send photos!

Love,
Pam

P.S. I’m sending this snail mail to Barbara on the RR route and to all via email. Write when you have a minute and send it then by email; whoever has the snail mail can print and add your letter to the envelope. Let’s try it??!!

Projects and Money-Saving Tips September 24, 2008

Posted by Diane Bird in : All Posts , 1 comment so far

My project of the year was to paint our kitchen. I knew I needed to wash down the walls first, but wasn’t sure what to use. Mother used ammonia and water, and being the dedicated housekeeper she was, she “did” the walls every year. One of the reasons she used ammonia was probably because of the residue from cigarette smoke, and she needed to cut through the accumulated brown ick. I use ammonia for some of my routine cleaning around the house, like the oven and the grill racks, but it’s very hard on my hands and I never got the knack of wearing rubber gloves. So, utilizing the great resources on the internet, I found the following tips, and I can attest to the fact that they work wonderfully. For the kitchen walls, I used the GENERAL CLEANING “recipe”:

1 gallon water

One-half of 1/3 cup borax

One teaspoon liquid dish soap

1-1/2 teaspoon ammonia

My delight had no bounds, though, when I tried the WINDOW WASHING SOLUTION. After years of trying ammonia mixtures, vinegar mixtures, Windex and other store bought wonders (all supposedly “streak-free”) I will now use nothing except the following recipe:

One quarter cup corn starch dissolved in two quarts warm water

Now, I know it’s hard to believe, but it works equally well inside and out, leaving no streaks and no residue on the windows. It easily removes dirt, grease, bug juice, even bird-do. Fast, efficient, and cheap! That’s another great side benefit of these tips, that they will save money and we all surely need that with the economy continuing on its slide down the slippery slope. Large boxes of both soda and borax are available in your local supermarket (or WalMart, if you want to spend the money on gas to get there).

SINK CLEANER (replaces Comet, etc.): Mix one-half cup borax and one cup baking soda.

TOILET STAIN CLEANER: Drain the bowl to the lowest level; make a paste of vinegar and borax; apply to stains and scrub with very light sandpaper.

VERY GREASY POTS & PANS: Add two tablespoons vinegar to soapy wash water.

Try this FACIAL, and wonder why you spent $16 on your last jar of “stuff”! Mix 1 part olive oil with 3 parts baking soda. … or this simple, easy MAKEUP REMOVER: Baby oil!

And the kitchen got painted semi-gloss “Country White” and looks great, if I do say so myself.

Has it been a year already? Here’s my update . . . July 19, 2008

Posted by Jackie Sampson in : All Posts, Reunion , 10comments

Well, family, it has been almost a year ago when we all gathered in Colorado for the super fantastic Magnuson Family Reunion.  So many memories, so little time, regrets that we didn’t personally visit more with each and every one of you.  But, it was great and Pam and Frank Pecarich along with Stephanie and Kevin Shepherd saw to it that it was an event that was again, super, fantastic…!

Now if you all would be so kind as to update everyone on what the last year has been in your lives, it would make interesting reading.

Our email address changed to donsamp@q.com in case some of you need to change your address books. I’ve been in touch with some of you.

We will be going to Wisconsin in a week or two to visit Dave, Paulette, Cormac and Josie.  Just ordered big fish pillows to take the little ones.  If you want to see, go to www.cabelas.com and they are 4 feet long, pillow replicas of sunfish, walleye, marlin, and shark.  Cormac has talked his Dad into fishing and they have been camping, fishing, etc. and I think will love these plush pillows to lounge around with while watching TV.

Rick and Katie just spent several days with us and we toured to Kearney college campus where Rick went to school and played basketball.  It was fun for him to see all renovations, improvements, etc. from so many years ago.

Sarah, as we speak, is in Europe and touring for a couple weeks before she checks in for her UNL sponsored classes at Oxford University.  She gets 6 credit hours and has loved sightseeing and now needs to settle down for what she has made the trip.  Jack is working at Habitat for Humanity, driving materials, working in the warehouse etc.

Joe is enjoying the summer in New Hampshire.  Just sadly lost his pet cat (19 years) which he is mourning, but visited the Humane Society and took home two 6 year olds that are settling in nicely.  He thought he would just get one but couldn’t separate the two of them as they were litter mates and had been given up by a couple that couldn’t keep them any more.

Don and I are “maintaining” and pretty much enjoying life.  Reading lots, using the computer lots, some golf (‘tho that is another story), involved with our church.  I’m doing my weekly volunteer job at our hospital thrift shop – sorting, pricing, etc.

Bob, Dave, Rick and Don plan to get together in Lincoln for the Virginia Tech/Nebr. game later in September.  First time for them all to sit together in the same 4 seats for many years.

Don and I plan to attend a Law School reunion in Lincoln in October. Not an exciting account of our doings, but lets hear from the rest of you!

I think about you all so much and send love to you.

Jackie